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a few things i know.
I know that there is some sort of redemption to be had for love from loving again.
I know that when you're eating ice cream and you get a brain freeze it sucks, but i also know that as soon as the brain freeze has subsided the first thing you do is eat more ice cream.
Love and broken hearts are pretty much the same thing.

Gonna try a little something.
just for me.
once upon a happily ever after i was enamored and playful with words.
No i'm in love and have seemed quite content to just be.
But damn it if i don't miss it. Stringing words.

It meant something to me. readership be damned.

on a side note Ray Lamontagne's voice could make my mental vagina wet.
It's just so damn....weathered. You believe it, instantly.
Sometime you need a little bit of that.
Hearing something with conviction. It helps.
The worlds in chaos, the pendulums swung right back and off its damn axis.
So anything that seems to say. "I know what i'm writing about." helps.

so here's the thing, you start writing, it's almost like jerking off, you blog, you bitch, you do this whole auto-disecting thing and for a while it works. It helps and the more it helps the less you write until eventually you start wondering why you write your little blog, and who reads it, if anyone?

and so months have past and i've writen tech stuff @ stitchrobot.com and design stuff at macthemes.net
and very little of my life has found itself into this blog, and maybe that's okay.

p.s. Sarah Palin freaks me out.

i just watched the debate.

she has the exact same smile in every single picture. I hate smiles that feel rehearsed.

I've a new mistress and her name is stitchrobot.com
After two years of writing my random musings in this little sandbox of mine i realized that with close to nil readers i was really just writing for myself, despite efforts to bring others into the fold.
The truth is most people just don't give a shit about the well written bitching about a blokes inner struggle to figure himself out.
I know because i don't read too many blogs about other blokes well written bitching about finding themselves.
Enter : stitchrobot.com a blog for me to geek out, to tech cool hunt, to aggregate the plethora of wonderful that i find on the internets. A place to spout mac tutelage and the sort.
Something a bit more...accesible for people to read written by me.

This blog will continue in its current incarnation as a place where i play with words, spout, rage, smile, etc.
no format, no purpose other than to serve as a spill over for the stuff in my head.

and now the musical interlude.

I LOVE IT!

the more time passes, the more she becomes a stranger i once loved.
given enough time i imagine it will feel like remembering a dream.
a dream of being in love one with a tall albanian girl who liked being held.

I only just found out, she passed away in dec. We both moved back to Mexico from nyc at about the same time, late 2006, and the last i saw her was after i came back from spain in April of 2007, after that we lost touch, but she was always in the back of my mind, wondering when we'd cross paths, Today i finally sent her an email, but it was bounced back, so i looked her up on facebook, and saw an facebook group in her memory. Death has never ever felt so real as it does right now. I've known people that have passed before, casual friends, extended family, parents of friends, etc, but i was always somewhat insulated from the full impact by a slight degree of seperation. Cosette...well...it was an almost was that became a friendship over the course of 2006. I'd been missing her for months now, thinking, looking forward to finally calling her up and catching up, I miss her all the more terribly knowing that i will never be able to.

I'd never really given too much thought to death, to what happens next, all i know is that if in some shape or form we carry on, there is now one person i look forward to coming across,

"Your whole life, people are gonna ask you to be weak. They're gonna practically beg you. But all anyone really wants is for you to be strong." - The Hottest State

two years ago i met a woman who, in breaking my heart, would teach me that lesson.
When i was with her, i allowed myself to be vulnerable, to strip down to my trembling broken self.
I saw everyone of her fears when i looked into her eyes. I could see the beautiful girl who wanted to be brilliant and was terrified of being shallow. I saw to the very core of her and because of it i thought i loved her and because of it i let her see just how broken i was then and there.

But people don't want weakness, they want strength, quiet strength, subtle and open perhaps, but strength.
That subtle balance between openness and fortitude.

Things ended with her, as these things tend to do, and not long ago she suggested we meet for coffee. I confess that whilst appealing, seeing her would also be like walking into that room of people that saw you show up naked to school in your dream.

Mario Fucking Paint.
man did i love this "game"
SNES and a mouse, pure joy

and you can totally download a recreation and play with it on your computer http://www.unfungames.com/mariopaint/ fucking yea! there goes sleep

Father's Day.
My Dad has 6 children and 1 "illegitimate" child that he just found out about and is trying to build a relationship with. Of his children all of us at some point or another have been through therapy for co-dependancy and addictions of one sort or another and two have been through rehabs for eating disorders.
To say that the sins of the father reflect on the child is putting it mildly. We all grew up with, at various times, an incredibly absent father who was exceedingly generous financially, an interesting duality that for many years kept us from realizing just how absent he really was from our lives.
My youngest brother is the one who is really testing my father. He is 20. Never finished high-school and is gripped with such intense anxiety that he smokes pot every night just to try and go to sleep. When things started to unravel with my brother about three years ago my father decided that the best approach was to just let things reach a natural boiling point. To let things achieve a state of crisis. In hindsight he's admitted that was a mistake, but i also think he believed that he would be in a position to throw money at the problem and solve it when it finally boiled over. I don't think he ever realized that his financial situation could take a turn for the worse and that as a result he would find himself feeling far more impotent to combat the problems that finally have boiled over.

It's sad, deeply saddening to watch my brother so deeply dug into a trench of his own behavioral patterns and coping mechanisms. But what's worse is to realize that had my parents made different choices, and in this regard because my mother is bi-polar more of the blame falls on my father as the only physiologically stable parent, my brother david might not be in the state he is right now.

So on this fathers days my dad sits alone in a hotel room in Houston, overwhelmed by the weight of his responsibility to his youngest boy. Who at 20 years old is still just a boy, who's lost, and full of resentment towards a father that let him get lost, because at the time he thought thats what was best.

2 years just go by, they didn't even ask permission.

fuckers.

someday soon i'll write about my first love. At the very least for everyone who's read the rants and meanderings that came about because of it ending, I'll write the beginning. Those first three days in Dec of 2000. It feels like time to do it.

circa 1993-94

I got chicken pox and my perpetually traveling father came "home" to see me, although to be fair by this time i think my parents where almost divorced.
I was going to spend all week in bed, trying and failing, not to scratch myself silly.
My dad having just returned from a trip abroad handed me a brand new powerbook 150.
He said here. this is for you to keep you busy. So really this mac thing is all his fault.
I'm a geek cause of him.

might as well, write something.
shit if i do then i can pretend some part of the last hour of useless and slightly self destructive reminiscing was in some way constructive

add 1 part: thinking about ex, seeing her myspace, and wondering what the fuck if anything is left, yet again, reused thought, recycled, shat it out and ate it once again, and it still taste like shite.

add 2 parts: my ex-gfs sister is staying in my flat and has been for a week. She's lovely, and not at all like her sister, which is to say i feel i can relate to her. but goddamn if it isn't a challenge not to thing about the ex, the lack of contact, friendship, failed attempts at friendship, and wonder yet again if it isn't a shame that after 5 years all thats left is a little bit more than nothing and a friendship with her sister.

add 1 cup of: after 7 days, the diplomatically vague topic of P. the ex, came up with the sister in conversation. bits and pieces really, of who she is, seen through the eyes of a younger sister that doesn't always relate to her, nothing really of much use. the sort of half conjectured observations that serve only to highlight how estranged the once loved can become.

blunt: i hate that i give a shit. But now in the presence of a, house guest, reminder it saddens me that there isn't anything between us, it scares me to think that having loved so intensely and so blindly it or rather i left so little room for anything else, But hey man a bad break up is a bad break up, you get over it but it doesn't quite motivate you to invite the person for tea, or send an email every few months to catch up. There's always that lack of trust.

More than anything, i wish one of us had had the balls to end it sooner, before it got ugly, before the cheating, before the blog reading, before my faux attempt at post break up friendship because i thought she needed me, before she confided in me that she had a [removed at the her request as a courtesy], her process, finding herself through her darker side, i wish i'd known to walk away, COLD, because i think maybe today i'd have that occasional email to say hello, and it would be ok, as she seems to be okay now, except i wouldn't have born witness to her destroying the person i loved before discovering who she was.

maybe thats why i can't reach out or send the email i've been writing to her in my head all week.
maybe it all boils down to i haven't figured out how to forgive her for tearing to bits the version of her that i loved so utterly.

We had these very silly and very personal nicknames for each other, i was peep and she was peo, and really it was just the personas for two lifetimes of unexpressed childhood playfulness and wonder that we discovered we could indulge in with each other, One day, of the many shared with her, i playfully "threatened" to do something, lick her eye i think, and she squirmed and said "no, don't do that, it's the instant death of peo spot" i laughed at the thought, thinking that the playful childish side of her was in some naive way eternal, in the same way i though we were.

For months, and months during the course of the first year after we split, i kept thinking, "instant death of peo." over and over again, Aware of how ridiculous it sounded but also of how precisely it expressed my utter disgust and heartbreak. could it be that even now, somehow i haven't forgiven her for the "not so instant death of peo" and with it peep, some bit of my ability to love naively.

I'm not sure how to end this post. there's still somethings i can't quite bring myself to write.

I've noticed a trend. the end of the month/ beginning of a new month are slow blogging times. something in my internal clock takes a moment to realize that we have in fact carried on into the next month.
It's almost as if i'm a sailor trying to sail to the edge of the world only to realize its round.
I still think the end of a month should include a small pause, a day or two to say phew that month went by quickly.

that's it for now. but at least the May index of my blog archive has something in it now.

i've this wonderful wonderful book. But i won't divulge the name of it, not yet. and it's filled with the ability to mix and match animal parts to create new ones. I've decided i will from now on occasionally share some of these carefully concocted concoctions.

accordingly todays animal is:
a capricious specimen with a sturdy caparison hailing from the malaysian forests.

Bueller? Bueller?
ok so despite the fancy hit tracker that shows up to the right of this post i really don't have any clue who, what, where, why, people read this blog.
so in an effort really do fill the time on a lazy sunday i've decided to do roll call,
except i have no idea what your names are (with one or two exceptions)
so everyone or no one.
please comment with at the very least, if not a name, a city, it'd been fun to see where people are stumbling onto this blog from.

sometimes when nothing else seems worthy of my attention i cram my short term memory full of random images from flickr. I feel like i'm cramming them full of a random slice of lives. Laughter, people spinning, mediocre pictures of buildings and dogs, gadgets, half naked girls, pain, sadness, memories.

and then i'll move on. write. listen to music, do something unrelated and all that imagery that represents the fragments of someones life just vanishes into the mist of forgotten new memories.

and tomorrow i'll submerge myself in another set and it will affect my mood for a few minutes and then pass.

It's an odd sort of meditation on life and voyeurism.

I've stopped counting the end of my past relationship.

for some time now, I stopped paying attention to old anniversaries.


But i've sorted of done away with them in general. Some day this summer.

On a nice day with a good


breeze i'll somewhat arbitrarily say "it's been a year" for my new relationship.


No date. No anniversary. No marking of a calendar. I think it's nicer this way.

I'm at the part where i start processing the little random bits that were once me, us, her, that chapter.
some moments are awkward like watching my new gf put on the cooking apron i bought once for valentines many years ago with old gf. It seems so bizarre that my stuff, my things, my sheets, my pillow, my stuffed animal, a green frog, all once seemed so shared with that one person. They're all analogous with me i suppose. It's the realization that i'm sharing of myself again.

another something i noticed: no one ever quite fits in your arms the same way. the small evolved patterns of holding, nestling, sleep, are utterly different, devastatingly so, because however unfair it is to say so, a small part of me wondered if she would fill the spot on my chest that the old "she" once fit into.
instead it's my right ankle that notices her absence when i sleep alone. It's the leg with which i reach and touch her leg as it reaches for mine since we sleep facing opposite directions.

Quote: Before Sunset from Luis Sosa on Vimeo.

I stumbled across this song playing Rock Band.

and man was i into it. "jamming" to Seven by VAGIANT.

and boom. I'm singing along to the chorus but i'm alone, and the mic isn't plugged in.

cause "I----I-----I-----AYYYYY Got your back until i DIEEEEEEEEE-AYYYYYYYY"

and fuck me but i was moved by the fucking punk rocking stalkerish sentiment to this song.

moved man, fucking moved, thinking i want someone to love me that fucking much.....enough to stalk me....

enough to sing to me

"and I'------gonna protect you till i die....I won't let nobody hurt you again...i'll fuck up your next girlfriend if she breaks your heart"

Got home more.

More than i did when i left new york for mexico.

More than when i spent 11 days in new york in March purging my belongings.

I got home a little more this time around.

some of it has to do with closing doors.

but more so it's about realizing what the corridors i've got in front of me are.

I can see the burdens on the horizon.

If i knew what to look for i'm sure i could smell them.

It's growing up time.

putting it off has been fun and necessary.

my mother's bipolar. It's a subtle bitch of a condition. It masquerades as stubborn pride or indignation but ends with her sobbing in self pity in the corner of her room. It starts with some round about logic about how everything you've agreed upon for the past 3 or 4 days has really been wrong. It begins with what sounds like a suggested alternate course of action.

Mother: have you considered that if you don't do what we've agreed upon because secretly i resent you for not being able to give me exactly what i want and feel i deserve because once i was very wealthy and beautiful and coveted and now i'm not, that it might actually work out better.

Son: well i can't do that. cause i can't afford to.

Mother: well how come your father has a nice house and a nice car and...

Son: well because he's a different person than you.

Mother: it's not fair.

Son: no it's not

Mother: well now i don't want anything. I'd rather not having anything than accept what you can give which isn't what i deserve.

"i've been driving WV cars since i was 16, why should i stop now!"(actual quote)

and it deteriorates from there.

But i have come to one conclusion. She's stable for 4 days. it's the 5th day that sends her off on one of her bipolar induced rages of self pity and anger.

My original return flight home was yesterday Wednesday at 8:50pm. It was perfect. i would have left right at her stability peek. But i had to delay my departure and now i've overstayed my welcome. Her brain is fighting back against my subtle attempts to placate her. to comfort her and control the mental tangents that lead her down dark roads of regret.

But in the end she resents me. she resents that i've accepted my fathers help and secretly and not so secretly at times just wants me to suffer her mistakes with her. to tell my dad to fuck off and shove his money and go hate him from a distance with my mother and my younger brother who did take my mom up on her strategy for all the good it's done anyone.

My father probably was a bit of a dick. I know him enough to accept that half what my mom has accused him of is probably true.

But sometimes. as i myself have recently discovered, you need to let go of the anger or it will just tie you to the person you're hating.

my mom's been tied to my dad through hate for more than a decade.

enough mom.

enough.

anonymous comments are delightful and vexing. mainly because i'd love to know more about my readers.

haha readers. there is probably like 5 of them.

But hey 5 readers is 4 more than the ones i have in my head.

anonymous comments remind me of secret admirer notes i got in highschool...or the secrete nemesis notes that i also got.

i never did find out who sent either of those.

love.

i really believe it can only exist when two equally fucked up people come to understand both sides of pain.

breaking hearts and having yours broken.

that pain. that scaring permanence of loosing love that I'd started feeling was as constant as consciousness is the only thing jaring enough to have made me finally figure out who i am. (apologies for switching to first person but it was necessary)

So i stopped looking for damsels to rescue. or beautiful fucked up girls, broken girls, wounded girls who i could wrap in my sense of centeredness*

i want awareness of humanity. our condition is flawed. we slam into wisdom like jumpers leaping off tall erections and crashing into concrete.

I'm still learning. realizing how reluctant i've been to forgive, how much the loathing simmered and settled into a substrata that helped me force a distance between me and that one person i once loved so utterly. But i have to let go of that hate. It's no longer serving any real purpose, except ironically to tie me to her.

in hate as i was in love.

enough now.

enough.

I'm in Houston. unpacking the boxes upon boxes that are the artifacts of a life lived in New York City. Boxes which up until two weeks ago had spent a year and half at a storage location in Harlem.

When we start coming across some decidedly feminine products. some empty facial cream tins, some decorative jars to hold bathroom supplies and other misc. She asks me what i'm doing with these things and i say "the were probably ______'s (my ex)" "She lived in my place for a few months after we broke up while she looked for a new flat. "Que bien la tenia, todavia vivio en tu depa?" (She had it nice, she actually lived in your flat?" She then asked how could it have ended if she had it so good, something which reminds me that in my mom's generation all a man really needed to do was take care of his girl and that's it. No messy emotional baggage to deal with, at least not on the surface. I say something about it being complicated and then in something that struck me as suprisingly naive for a woman as bitter as she is she said "But she seemed so in love with you when i saw her at your graduation."

"Yes" i say

"She was" i say

"We were" i say

but it had nothing to do with it.

and it didn't.

There was a time when all i needed to lead me to my newest frivolous technology purchase was that rush of Dopamine that the mere knowledge of a new gadget would elicit. My life for my first 25 years or so followed a steady stream of update after update that kept me on the relative cutting edge of whatever.

in the last two years though i've started to mellow. Tech purchases now undergo a less that rigorous evaluation through whatever part of my frontal cortex is responsible for responsible. The words "do you really need it" mock me. I sometimes find myself doing what no early adopted should ever do...wait...for the next version!

my computer will be two years old in sept. that for me is an eternity and yet other than the limit on RAM (2gb) i'm actually doing quite okay with it which doesn't help justify the mac pro i want to buy.

*this is a fairly mediocre post. but in the interest of the daily. i'm just gonna let it float onto my blog like that piece of poop that won't flush.

Because i firmly believe everyone should have a laugh at the expense of this blokes parents choice.

much has been written about muxtape in the last few days by the blogsphere. and for good reason. It's exceedingly simple, beautiful, fun, and clever and yet like most things that achieve this combination of adjectives it runs the very real danger of crossing the digital overlords of the RIAA (who appointed them anyways. fuckers!) for those that don't know it's very simply a website that allows you to upload 12 songs (that's it) and create your online mixtape that you can share with your mates. simple. except for it to be legal i'd have to actually have permission from the 12 different copyright holders to upload the songs. It's actually much grayer legal territory since the DMCA does allow provisions for fair use. but fair use is somewhat subjective. I hope muxtape sticks around, because its cool and clever and created by new yorkers, and as former new yorker i tend to root for the home team.

once upon a time on this blog i said the month of june was my favorite. It was. but really it wasn't what i really meant was a favoritism for a remarkable young girl i still haven't met that i got to know in the spring of 2007. Today i had the chance to catch up with her. a friend i'd lost touch with. It was pleasant and was a pleasant reminder of the fact that sometimes people drift in and out of your life like ...things that drift in and out.

like migrating birds.

like a taste for Gun's and Roses

part of the impermanence of life is that on occasion somethings drift naturally back into your personal sphere, by an unseen osmosis and that is really quite nice.

ok in the interest of journalistic integrity, although i'm neither a journalist or particularly integrated, i will say that by posting this i'm getting a free license to a kick ass program, but only because i was also part of the beta testing.

So the program Misu . I like to think of it as ipods mating. My 80GB ipod video gets to swap chromosomes (it's music) with my gf's 30gb ipod video. It allows for direct ipod to ipod music swapping without the intermediary step of passing the songs onto the computers itunes library. it's dead simple and a delightful way to share music from ipod to ipod.

I really have no idea how many people read this blog with any frequency. i don't go out of my way to promote it, in fact i don't go in my way to promote it. but in the interest of keeping sane i will now write in this blog everyday. small observations, nuanced happenings. a simple hello world fuck you.

my hands are smooth. My girlfriend says she likes my touch. the way the feel on her skin. She usually say's this as the caress the territory between the nape of her neck and the small of her back.

My hands have held pens, clacked over a multitude of keyboards, sent text messages,
they've given pleasure and on very view occasions caused physical pain.
My hands have kept me warm. They've walked with me through harsh new york winters but only for the few minutes i'd brave the cold to go buy a magazine or a cup of coffee.
My hands have assembled ikea furniture and cursed the person who invented torque screw screwable furniture.
My hands have carried furniture and heavy boxes as i've moved from one idea of home to another.
my hand's have stopped my mothers hand from striking my face (an action she felt was disrespectful), my hands changed my baby brothers diapers, my hands wrote fake notes in my mothers name to ditch school and skip gym class.
my hands have given comfort, congratulations, and condolences.

Yet, despite, in spite, or because of these things my hands have done i feel like they haven't done enough. They haven't made things, crafted things, they haven't built things, my hands have avoided these things by deftly using ATM cards to pay others to do these things. But tonight my hands for the first time felt the need to forge,craft,mold, something, anything, so that i can look at my hands one day and say these hands made this. It may only be a tiny this, a trivial this, a trinket some future someone will wonder as to it's importance.

something more than words on a page which is usually no longer a page at all but pixels upon pixels arranged as the facsimile of words on a page.

I was searching my email for something and instead i ended up rereading an email detailing all the abuse an ex-gf went through that i never knew about, that was never shared, the email is more than two years old but it hits me very hard to read it. When i first read it in nov of 2005 i remember feeling angry that she felt i should have known something i couldn't possibly have imagined. Today i read it and wished i could have given her a hug. There is nothing sadder than the things we hide from the people we love and that love us.

i still have mine. though i'd hadn't looked for it in ages.
that is all move along now, nothing more to see

About once a month, when the "where are they now" itch strikes me I pop over to myspace, hi5, and facebook and look at the profiles of a handful of ex-girlfriends, some of who have made it clear that they would have very much liked to remain friends with me post break-up.

A line from the short film Hotel Chevalier found a spot in my mental drawer of "why didn't i write that" phrases. In a dialogue familiar to anyone who's had an acrimonious split Girl says to Boy "I don't ever want to loose you as my friend" and Boy replies "i promise, i will never be your friend, ever."

So the post break up friendship. especially after a long or significant relationship versus the two week casual one with the girl you met on myspace and took to see "Knocked Up" once before having mediocre sex a couple of times. She's the easy one to keep in touch with. Nothing was ever really at stake, so the friendship settles in naturally. But what's the motivation, the key to the post X year relationship friendship?

I think one natural motivator is a interest in that persons narrative. You bear witness to it throughout the relationship and regardless of how chaotic the break-up, as the years begin to pass you find yourself wondering what's happened in that narrative since you stopped being a regular viewer. So that usually meant one of two things, asking a mutual friend or making the occasional phone call to see how that person's narrative is going.

Enter: Online, Social Networking, Blogging

I'm not friends with my ex's because i don't need to be. I can follow up on a loose cliff notes version of their lives without having to so much as smile in their direction. I have a general sense of if they're doing well, if their dating, and how work is. Hell on any given site even friends comments can tell me whether she's watched any good movies recently or where she spent her holidays. There's pictures and journal entries, and after 5 mins, once a month, i carry on, having satisfied my curiosity but not having made the emotional effort or investment to build a friendship with ex's, some of whom bluntly broke my heart.

So:

Girl: I hope we can be friends


Boy: I will never ever be your friend, but i may friend you on facebook so i can see your profile and find out what you're up to without having to really interact with you.


Girl: ok. i guess i'll read your blog and leave occasional comments.


Boy: fine.

UPDATE: One of the profiles i wrote about in this post has now been made private. coincidence?

i like the way you look naked.

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If i had the inclination to do so i'm sure i could go through the last two years of blog posts and find a definite pattern in my usage of time.

on the one hand I have since i graduated college in 2004 lived a blissful unencumbered by daily schedule existence. A freelance existence. Sat and Sunday are no more days off than Thursday afternoon if i feel like it. I don't have an office or employer to report to, and i have enough savings that most of the time i have enough to at the very least get by.

On the other hand all this freedom leaves waaaaay to much room for my old habits and demons to emerge, I am prone to both bouts of Consumerism (buying shit) and 24/7 sprees of co-habitation with whomever my significant other is at the time. Which leads to the occasional post where i bitch about feeling aimless, lost, or stuck.

The freelancers dilemma is not unique to me, Much has been written about the importance of giving yourself a schedule, getting dressed to go to work in the morning even if work is in your home office or on the living room couch with your laptop. And as the months tick by i've become aware that i really do need to take that advice to heart. Far too much time has been spent waiting on things to happen to me, or fall in my lap.
And i fear that if i don't start filling my time with specifics i'll waste it all on ambiguity.

So 08. Good so far, i got married, built a car from scratch, saved a bug (i think it was a ladybug) from drowning. Unfortunately or fortunately depending on your views of marriage and ladybugs none of the above is true. It just felt colourful to write. (p.s. i hate that my spell check marks coloUrful as incorrect, i wonder if British version of MacOs do the same)

In other news i would like to suggest that anyone interested in smiling watch "Juno" and then do as i did and listen to the soundtrack compulsively for days and days on end and marvel at Kimya Dawsons ability to string words into smile inducing patterns.

in 18 days i get my second tattoo. All my friends were right. It is addictive.

and finally i have bought and sold countless friends for profit and the human right organizations still don't have a clue*


*facebook app: sell your friends ROCKS...

"What Goes Around Comes Around" is...i want to say blasting but since the volume on my touch is set to about 70%, i'll have to settle for playing into my ears. I'm walking through Parque Mexico on a brisk but sunny saturday in Mexico City. The stream of hip, sexy people, seems never-ending and i feel fucking cool. I feel fucking cool cause i'm mouthing half singing the words to Justin Timberlake's song, and images of the 1930's tinged music video dance in my head.


A girl is walking a small Chihuahua on a brisk but sunny saturday in Mexico City. The stream of hip, sexy people, goes mostly unnoticed by her. She watches a man in mid length black coat, wearing herimbone glasses, and mouthing the words to some song. She shares a giggle with her dog.

So there's the rub. I felt magnificently cool. surrounded in my own sound-tracked bubble but to everyone outside i'm just a silly man, mouthing the words to a song they can't hear.

*



image by way of xkcd

I have a pile of dishes i don't want to wash. I might buy a car this year but the most futuristic thing about it is that its got good gas mileage and an audio input for my ipod. My next vacation will probably be to one of the coasts of the united states, and this winter has been unseasonably warm.

The future happens so gradually that even those things with the capacity to amaze (iphone, water purification straws, OLPC?) feel normal very quickly. Someone really needs to fast forward the tech development and really make us FEEL the 21st century.